Secure your path forward with Birdsong Advocacy.

All sessions are one-on-one, confidential, and thoughtfully tailored to your unique needs. Whether you're navigating post-separation abuse, high-conflict custody, or simply seeking clarity in a storm of confusion, expert guidance can make all the difference.

Schedule your first session today and take the next step toward peace, empowerment, and lasting change.

Welcome to Birdsong Advocacy

Guidance through high-conflict divorce. Calm, clear support for women navigating toxic separation.

Birdsong Advocacy is a space where you can breathe again. A space where clarity replaces confusion, and where you are reminded that you don’t have to face this alone.

I’m Jen—a registered nurse, mother of four, and certified High Conflict Divorce Coach. After walking through my own long and painful separation filled with emotional manipulation and legal complexity, I founded Birdsong to offer the kind of steady, compassionate guidance I once needed myself.

This work is rooted in both lived experience and professional training. Whether you're navigating a custody battle, struggling to communicate with a toxic co-parent, or feeling overwhelmed by the legal system, Birdsong Advocacy is here to help you:

• Understand the family court process

• Communicate safely and effectively with a high-conflict or narcissistic ex

• Prepare for custody evaluations and legal proceedings

• Prioritize your children’s emotional well-being

• Reclaim your own peace, confidence, and future

You are not alone. Let’s walk this together—with calm, clarity, and care.

Certification & Endorsement

Jen is a graduate of the High Conflict Divorce Coach Certification Program. This eight-week, intensive course focuses on the difficult dynamics of high-conflict divorce and child custody battles. Our program focuses on the intricacies of post separation abuse and our coaches are trained that it only takes one toxic, abusive or personality disordered individual to create a high-conflict situation. Jen will be an amazing resource and advocate for those attempting to navigate the family court system. It was an honor to have Jen in our program and I look forward to cheering her on in her advocacy work.

— Tina Swithin, CEO/Founder of the High Conflict Divorce Coach Certification Program